Sex Work Safety Tips You Can Use Right Now
When you’re arranging a meet‑up, the first thing you want is to feel safe. It’s not about being paranoid – it’s about taking easy steps that keep you in control. Below are the basics that work for anyone in the industry, whether you’re an independent escort or a client looking for a reliable connection.
Verify Before You Meet
Start with a quick profile check. Look for clear photos, a real‑name hint or a verified badge on the site. If the platform offers a two‑factor login, use it. Ask for a short video call – it’s a cheap way to confirm the person is who they say they are. When you get a response, note the tone. Genuine professionals answer promptly and politely, while scammers tend to rush or dodge details.
Take the extra minute to run a reverse‑image search on the main photo. If it shows up on multiple unrelated sites, treat it as a red flag. A quick Google search of the phone number or email can also reveal if it’s been reported for fraud. These checks save you from awkward or dangerous meet‑ups.
Protect Your Privacy and Location
Never give out your full address until you’re absolutely sure the other party is trustworthy. Use a safe‑house address, a hotel, or a coworking space that you can leave after a short stay. If you’re the client, meet in a public place first – a coffee shop or a park – to gauge the vibe before moving to a private setting.
Turn off location services on your phone when you’re not using them. Use a secondary phone number or a messaging app with end‑to‑end encryption for all communications. This keeps your personal number out of the hands of bad actors and reduces the chance of unwanted tracking.
Always have a backup plan. Let a friend know where you’re going and set a check‑in time. If you don’t hear back, they should call you or alert the authorities. A quick text to a trusted contact can be the difference between a smooth encounter and a risky situation.
Payment safety matters too. Use a secure, traceable method like a reputable escrow service or a reputable payment app. Avoid cash hand‑offs in isolated spots – they leave you vulnerable to theft or disputes.
Finally, trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Walking away might feel awkward, but it’s better than staying in a situation that could turn unsafe. Remember, you set the rules, not the other person.
These simple steps – verification, privacy, and backup plans – create a solid foundation for safe, professional encounters. Apply them every time, and you’ll notice how much more relaxed and confident you feel during each booking.
